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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

14.06.2025 01:32

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

Put me off passion for life!!

He knew the spot.

Was to survive, this bastard.

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Thats was my nicest nick name for him

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

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Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

She wouldn,t have been !

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But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

What thing happened to you as a child that you haven’t let go of to this day?

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

So whats the point in blame.

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But ive been too sick for many years..

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

It was going to be , some day.

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One cannot live in the past .

Where the ultimate outsiders.

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

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Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

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And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

He was dying to do it , i knew.

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

What was the hottest inappropriate sex you ever had?

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

What did i know ?

Why does everyone hate Ed Sheeran so much?

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

Who then, do I blame.?

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One cannot hold on to bitterness.

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

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But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

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It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

I did it because my mum asked me too!

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

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I was writing from the time i was a small child.

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

Would this be the day?

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

My family never makes their pension either.

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

I know ,a lot about trauma.

I write beautiful poetry .

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

But, we were locked up after school.

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

I don,t even have a pension.

Comes on , in middle age.

This is soul school!.

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

I was very sick at this time too.

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

I never cut or harmed myself..

I was scared of men, in general

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

When she asked me how she looked .

I couldn’t, believe it.

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

And i lived it daily.

Why did i forgive my father ?

She married twice! .

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

I said to her

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

I have no regrets .

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

All the time i was locked up.

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

My life is so biszare .

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

I will be 64.

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

I waited trembling.

Im dying but, im not bitter.

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

My mum and dad in the seventies!

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

She was in good health!

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

As i do to all so called friends.?

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

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I think the readers, may guess!

But it wasn’t much.

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

I had hoped to write a book about this .

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

And who doesn’t know suffering?

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

We were not on the streets..

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

I could never make a relationship work though!

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

Ive learnt so much.

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

Especially a lifetime of it.

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

This is how, and why children get BPD.

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

Im still living with it.

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

On the 31st of Jan this month .

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

They are buried together, in the same grave..

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

She loved him until the end.

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

I was seconnd youngest,

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

The only rule us 5 kids had .

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

He resisted the act ,that day.

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

She found it foreign!.

So, i spoilt her more .

(And it was in our own minds.)

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

I was 9 years of age.